A friendship app for your closest few. An everyday room to talk in, and one thing every week that the whole circle answers.
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Not an audience. A room, with the people you'd actually tell things to. There's an everyday hallway to talk in whenever, and the circle stays small enough that nobody performs — 2 to 8, and that's the ceiling.
Friends
Partner
Family
Cycling
Every Monday one thing arrives for the whole circle, and it stays for seven days. You never have to think of something to say — that's the part everyone gets stuck on, so the app does it for you.
One a week. The hallway stays open the whole time.
Nobody reads the room before writing. It's the whole reason the answers are worth reading — you get what someone actually thought, not what they thought would go down well.
I have my own apartment with a real kitchen. Five-year-old me would have lost it over the freezer ice maker alone.
Anna
How you ask one more question after I'm done answering. Most people just wait for their turn.
James
I narrate while I cook. Apparently it's a Mom thing. I had no idea until my roommate filmed me explaining the onions.
Sophie
A year where I just write and don't earn anything. One year. I feel guilty even saying it out loud.
John
The ride up to the lake at sunrise last September. Nobody talked for the last twenty minutes. I think about it all the time.
Marcus
Studio Ghibli. I rolled my eyes the first time. Now I've seen Spirited Away four times and you owe me nothing.
Emma
Week by week, you end up knowing each other in ways the group chat never got close to.
Some weeks ask you to think. Some ask you to show something you already have. Some ask you to get up and go somewhere. You never know which is coming, which is most of why anyone opens it.
A question you have to sit with for a second. Everyone writes before anyone reads.
What's a dream you have that feels selfish to say out loud?
What's something you used to judge others for that you now understand?
What current fact about your life would most impress your five-year-old self?
A prompt you've already answered without knowing it. The photo exists; you just have to find it.
Post the oldest photo on your phone.
Show us the plant you're keeping alive.
Share the last song you had on repeat.
A prompt whose answer doesn't exist yet. You have to put the phone down first, which is the point.
Go for a walk somewhere you don't usually walk and post one thing you saw.
Cook something you've never cooked before and post the result, good or bad.
Walk to the highest point you can reach on foot and post the view.
Nothing is labelled, and nothing is scheduled by you. Whatever arrives, the whole circle gets the same one.
Six screens from the app. They rotate every few seconds. Tap a label to jump.
Everyone writes their answer in private first. You only see what the rest of the circle wrote once you've shared your own. No groupthink, no piggybacking.
Every Monday opens a new chapter, with a fresh prompt picked from a library of thousands. The whole circle gathers around it for the week, and the conversation lives there forever.
Different people, different rhythm, different kinds of questions. What's said in one circle stays in one. Your family room doesn't bleed into your hiking group.
The home screen is the only place you'll see everything at once. No feed, no follower count, no algorithm. Just the rooms you've chosen to spend time in.
1,250 prompts are bundled into the app itself, so you always have a question ready when the moment calls for one. Anywhere, anytime, even offline.
Looking for something light, or something honest about what's actually going on? Filter by Casual, Personal, or Deep, and by theme, from Stories & Memories to Dreams & Fears.
Not just yours, almost everyone's. Here's the drift, in four numbers.
It isn't just a few unlucky people.
more adults have no close friends than in 1990
More and more of us are landing at zero. The wanting never went away; the keeping-in-touch did.
We didn't stop caring. We stopped showing up.
a week with friends now, and still falling
Down from six and a half hours two decades ago. The hours did not move to family or work; they mostly went to screens and the couch.
Closeness gets built one hour at a time.
to turn someone into a best friend
The ladder is climbable in both directions. Fifty hours makes a casual friend a good one; two hundred makes a good friend a best one. The same hours, left unspent, let them slide back down.
Each dot ≈ 10 hours together
Add it up, and here's the quiet result.
of your closest people are still there after seven years
Half your circle drifts away unless someone keeps a rhythm. The friends who stay are rarely the closest ones; they are the ones you kept showing up for.
The drift is just the result of doing nothing, repeated. The same arithmetic runs the other way too: fifty hours lifts a casual friend to a good one, two hundred makes a good friend your closest. A little time, kept on a rhythm instead of left to chance, is the whole difference between the people who stay and the people you used to know. Leave it to chance, and the room slowly empties until one day you're the only one in it.
Colloquies exists to keep that rhythm for you — one quiet room, and one thing a week that everyone answers, so the friends who already matter don't quietly become strangers.
No ads, no like buttons, no algorithm deciding who you hear from. A few deliberate choices keep the room honest.
A ceiling of 2–8 people per circle, so everyone can be honest without performing for a crowd.
An everyday hallway to talk in whenever, and one thoughtful prompt every Monday that gathers the whole circle.
You share your own answer before seeing anyone else's. No groupthink, no piggybacking.
Your circle is yours alone. Messages are encrypted in transit and at rest, and end-to-end encryption is one tap away when you create a Private circle, for the rooms that need it most.
Free for every small circle. Unlock a circle for everyone in it with a single yearly pass.
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Available on iOS and Android. Download now and invite your closest people to join your first circle.
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